You see a great prospect on a dating/matchmaking site and are a traditionalist, so what do you? Do you go with tradition and wait for him or do you break with tradition and get his attention? Putting that you do not make the first move in your profile is always a good thing if you never make the first move. However, it is a turn off for some men. The key is if you have a strong profile to back up your stance. If you are a real knock-out either in appearance or in your profile then men will flock to you. However, if you are less than stellar in the physical appearance department or your profile is just at the level, then he is going to pass you by. It is his loss, however it is also your loss.
You are going to feel the loss, and yet he will not. If there is nothing there to draw him, then he is not going to be drawn in. To be fair, most men are not swayed by a pretty face alone. If you are a perfect 10 in physical beauty, however you are a dud socially he not going to give you another look.
If you have done everything you can to make your profile not be ordinary and it is still is fairly plain then you are going to have to approach men on the site. It is not like approaching a man in person because you know for a fact that he is there for the very same reason as you are. He is looking to find someone to date and/or be in a relationship with him. It does not have to be much, just a little encouragement on your part. Sites offer up things like "winks", "nods", "flirts", etc. just for these situations.
The advice doled out is unqualified and is just for entertainment purposes. Your results may vary. The author is in no way responsible for any consequences be they positive or negative.
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