So the second issue that I had with this article on dating faux pas was the response to how to recover from accidentally sending your date a text message intended to a friend about how well the date went.
My advice would not be that much different from the female advisor's recommendation. Simply text him to say that you had a nice time and accidentally sent it to him instead of the friend it was intended for.
Where I break with the advisor is where she says that the man is a loser if he freaks out, even a little, if you mention that you cannot wait to marry him even after just meeting for the first time.
Maybe the real problem is that men are too literal and women are too hyperbolic.
Any reasonable man would most likely freak out, even just a little, if he got a text saying that you want to marry him after meeting for the first time unless he had similar feelings. If you explain that you were speaking hyperbolically that will calm him down. However, it might be a hard sell, especially as the relationship progresses. Anything that seems to be moving the relationship too quickly is going to undermine your explaination.
For the most part, men are flattered that you think so highly of us. We like it when you gush about us. It is truly sweet when we unintentionally overhear you say nice things about us and how we make you happy.
The advice doled out is unqualified and is just for entertainment purposes. Your results may vary. The author is in no way responsible for any consequences be they positive or negative.
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