If you are in your early to mid twenties, men may accept that you do not know if you want to have children. However, most men who reach their mid to late twenties have already made up their minds on the subject. We expect the same from women.
We do not want you to already have planned out exactly how many kids, their names, and where they will be going to school. However, we want you to have an idea of how many kids you want and when you feel is the right time to have them. It is critical that you have at least given serious thought to the things of life. Men will definitely walk away from a relationship if it will not work out. It is truly not you, it is them. They have different ideas about what their future is going to look like.
If you are steadfast in the number of kids that you will have, then it tells the man that you are resolved to have that many. It says that you cannot be swayed or negotiated with. You need to be open to having more or less children. This is an issue that affects both of you. These decisions cannot be entered into unilaterally.
Keep in mind that this is a discussion to be had before making a firm commitment such as engagement, however it should never come up on a first date or early on in the relationship. That will have any man running for the hills.
The advice doled out is unqualified and is just for entertainment purposes. Your results may vary. The author is in no way responsible for any consequences be they positive or negative.
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