Intimate Communications

I read an article recently by a woman who stated amongst other things that women talk openly, honestly, and often about the state of intimate relations. Men do not do that. It is a respect issue.

A man who respects the woman that he is with is not going to talk about their intimate relations. It is generally accepted, but not always practiced, that a man can spill the beans about an ex if the relationship ends on bad terms. It is never spoken of in public, but in a small gathering of well known associates. The relationship ending badly forces the man to lack respect for his former lover.

The fact that women talk about such intimate details is upsetting to me and lots of other men. First off, that is personal information. It does not matter if it was great, good, bad or the worst, we do not want you to tell someone else. We want you to tell us. Second is the knowing looks from your friends. Real or imagined, it is all the same. Third, it really cheapens what was something intimate. Fourth, Men view it as betrayal. How dare you share something so intimate and personal with someone else. It is especially viewed as a betrayal if you tell them that you felt one way about the encounter and tell us that felt another.


The advice doled out is unqualified and is just for entertainment purposes. Your results may vary. The author is in no way responsible for any consequences be they positive or negative.