There Should Be No Other Men In The Picture... Regardless Of Their Orientation

When men look at a woman's profile pictures they want to see her.  The occasional picture of her out and about with friends is fine as long as it is easy to identify her.  The rule is modified when there are men in the picture.  A brother shot is fine.  It shows he cares and that you are close to your family.  However other men who are not related to you need not be in your photos.  We do not care that you know, or simply met, some celebrity... at least not at that point.  That will make a cool story for in-person conversing later.

It is bad enough when there is some male "just a guy friend" in the picture, however it is much worse when he is visible into you and you are blind to it.  The next level of bad pictures is those with your clearly homosexual friends.  There is nothing flattery about a photo with you in the background, clearly drunk, and some guy in a deep vee neck clingy tee acting like a tiger in the foreground.  You only make it worse by captioning it "A night out on the town with my [homosexual] [female dogs]"  He might a get date out it, however you certainly will not.

As with all things in your dating or matchmaking profile, you want to put your best foot forward.  You want to come across as positively as you can.  While you may want to convey authenticity with your photos you can still do that in a more mild mannered approach.  There is a pot for every lid, however you are barking up the wrong tree if you think that a man will be impressed by a photo of you like that.  Men do not need to know that all your male friends are homosexual in order for him to be comfortable with you spending time in the company of other males.        


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