Many men say that they want to get married and yet are not ready to get married. Sometimes this is viewed as the man avoiding commitment. Listen carefully because it may mean that he is realizing his own limitations. If you are ready to get married and he is not then you might want to move on.
If it is said in the general sense then it is quite possibly the realization of his own limitations. If he is too immature, has too much in debt, or some other reliability issue then he is truly looking inward. Just because he has not finished his path to eligibility for marriage does not mean that you have to wait for him.
If he is working towards that goal then you might want to stick around. If he is not working toward that goal then he may never change. If you are truly important to him then he will work toward that goal.
If it is meant to be then it will happen. If he is not working toward that goal, then losing you is just the catalyst. If you are destined for each other then you two will have your chance after he is in the same place you are.
The same is true from the man's perspective. If you have a reliability issue and he wants to settle down, then he is going to move down the road unless you put some effort into resolution.
The advice doled out is unqualified and is just for entertainment purposes. Your results may vary. The author is in no way responsible for any consequences be they positive or negative.
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